I HATE ENDINGS.
I hate them!!
Sure, I know most people dislike “goodbyes” and don’t
like it when they eat the last bite of their ice cream sundae. But I seriously have an aversion to
endings. Examples:
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It is December 28th. David and I have not opened a single
Christmas gift from one another yet.
Long into the New Year some of these gifts will remain in their pristine
wrapping and eventually join the big pile of other “unopened gifts” at the Big
Yellow House.
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| This photo is NOT taken before Christmas... This is 3 days AFTER Christmas. |
- Remember when everyone was raving about the
ending of “Breaking Bad”? Yeah – we have not watched the conclusion yet. In fact,
just this month we started in on the last season. We have a couple left. We will stretch them out… (Same held true for another show we loved, “House”. Everyone else knew what
happened to Gregory House at the end about two years before we did. Quite literally.)
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I get sad at the beginning of every autumn. I really like autumn, mind you, but I am sad because of the ending of summer…
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| This is the view out our kitchen window every fall - our neighbor's tree is gorgeous, yet still the season makes me sad. Summer ENDS... |
I am sure there are many more examples in my life of
things that I put off ENDING.
To be clear, ending things is not the same as FINISHING things. Finishing allows you to check the item off
your “to do” list. Finishing can be
satisfying. ENDING is different – ending
is somehow much more final than a simple finish. Ending means that thing/event/season is
over. Ending brings with it a sense of
finality and often a tinge of sadness.
And so this project is nearly ending.
It is day 363 of 365.
To be honest, when I had this crazy idea and began it, I didn’t really
know if I could do it. You may not
realize it, but committing to do something every
single day is huge, at least for me it is!
Sure, you do things like brush your teeth every day, and most of
us cook every day. But to me
those are not commitments, those are just LIFE.
This blog, these reviews, these were a commitment. And for a commitment phobic such as myself, a
huge commitment!
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| Have I told you that we lived together for 12 years before getting married? Yeah, we BOTH dislike commitments... |
As you may have noticed if you looked back to the start
of this project, at the beginning my entries were more perfunctory – shop,
photograph the product, eat it, and review it.
But as the year went on and I got more and more “into” the blog, I
started to sort of share my life with you all.
That was a new experience for me, and sometimes it was a bit scary to be
vulnerable, but most of the time I really loved sharing photos of details with
you of “real life” stuff, not just
Trader Joe’s things.
So today is not the very last day of the project. But I feel like I have to sort of brace
myself, get myself ready, for the end, which is why I am taking time to write
this today.
Here’s the deal: I
feel like I enjoyed this project because for the first time in my life really,
I had a clear beginning, middle, and end to something. I knew exactly how many days were going to be
committed to this. Trust me, there were
times when I thought I was in way over my head, but knowing the finish date
kept a light at the end of the tunnel.
And now as the days have wound down I have been getting
sad, but at the same time a little piece of me is happy. And thrilled.
Thrilled that in just a couple of days I will be able to say “I DID
IT!!”. When I started this I had no idea
that “365” things were a trend. Did you
know that it is sort of “hip” now to do something every day?? I didn’t, until my sister-in-law told me
about an article in the Washington Post last month where they interviewed other
“every day of 2015” people. One guy is
eating a taco every day (I am glad I am not him). One woman is making a different tiny chair
every day!! The article was interesting
for me – I could relate to a lot of what the other people were saying. (You can read it
here )
Thank you to everyone who has been commenting, “DON’T
STOP BLOGGING!” and “You know you are not gonna stop, you are in too deep now…”. Your comments have made me smile and also
made me proud.
I must stop. I can’t
write everyday anymore. Each entry takes
me on average 45 – 50 minutes to compose and upload, and that is after already
spending time shopping, cooking, tasting, and photographing stuff. I have LOVED this project, it has been such a
motivation for me this year, but it has also taken a lot of my time and more
importantly, my creative energy. I promise
that I will write PERIODIC reviews and post them here – like, when we run into
something at Trader Joe’s that we adore (or makes us gag J ). But I can’t commit to doing it every day.
BUT (as PeeWee Herman says, “Everyone I know has a big
butt…”) – BUT – I am starting a new journey.
In thinking about this whole Trader Joe’s adventure, one
thing became clear to me – if I am putting something out there into the world –
I want it to have a PURPOSE. Sure, this
blog has the purpose of informing people about stuff at TJ’s, and perhaps a “sub-purpose”
(is that a word?) to entertain and make people laugh. And maybe this is the stuff that is supposed
to get talked over with a therapist J
but I think I am looking for a higher
purpose at this point.
So I have decided to be a KINDNESS ACTIVIST.
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| Do you want to be a kindness activist, too? |
“A HUH???” you might be thinking. A KINDNESS ACTIVIST. I am going to write about kindness. Not “random acts of kindness”, but
intentional, purposeful kindness. And not
hoity toity kindness on the religious scale, but everyday kindness that we all
give and witness.
I just think I would like to spread a little
kindness. I recently realized that kindness
is a heck of a lot like peanut butter, it needs to be SPREAD. So I hope to encourage people to SPREAD the hell out of it!!
Oh it’s still gonna be irreverent. It’s still gonna be silly. And it’s still gonna involve the adventures
of Susan and David. But I hope it will
involve the adventures of others, too.
Wanna join? I hope
you will. I have loved “getting to know”
you through your comments this year. I
am in the process of setting up the Kindness Activist stuff (guys – there are
going to be BUTTONS – I mean that is some serious stuff, eh – real-life-pin-to-your-shirt-or-backpack BUTTONS!!). I am
not committing to writing every day, but I am committing to being an
activist. And committing to encouraging
others to be activists alongside me.
Let’s do it!!!! Here
are the details:
(I am trying to get tech savvy here – wish me
luck!)
Please comment here or send me an email at the address
above to nominate someone you know as a kindness activist. And I hope it is YOU – you can totally share
with me things YOU did out of kindness! I
would love to write about them!! (And you know you want a kindness activist button...)
Enough kindness for
now, let’s get to today’s REVIEW!
European Cookie Collection – this is a special red tin of
12 varieties of cookies from Belgium. It
is a holiday/seasonal item, meaning TJ’s only carries it for a short time, and
when they are gone, they are gone (until next year during the holiday season,
when hopefully they will have them again!).
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| This was a flyer item AND a seasonal item - double special :) |
The packaging says a serving size is 3 cookies, but if
you like them do not fret – there are “around 34” servings in the big a**
tin!!
We decided to buy these cookies when a Trader Joe’s employee
at the Bailey’s Crossroads, VA store pointed them out to us. He told us that he remember another customer
who bought a DOZEN TINS of them at once!
I asked if they were for gifts, but nope, he loved them so much that he was
going to just store them and eat them over the year!! (Note:
I see that our tin says it is best eaten before August 2016 so that
would give us 8.5 months to eat these! Trust
me, they won’t last that long.)
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| Aren't they PRETTY? One variety up in the corner spot was broken, but the rest are in perfect shape |
There are 12 different cookies included here. I have eaten TWO and I really liked
them! One was the small round one with
coconut on top and it was deeelicious! They
taste like “European cookies”, but in the good sense of the word. I say that because we have eaten some European
desserts that are “all about the pretty” at the expense of the TASTE. These cookies are just as tasty as they are
lovely!
A downside for us tonight is that we are eating them in
FLORIDA where it has been around 80 degrees.
We have the air conditioner set to 79 degrees, so it is not, how shall I
say, cool in here. That means the chocolate is a bit melty. But we cannot blame the cookies for that at
all! That’s all on us. I give them a 4.75.
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| A cookie display on one of my favorite plates! |
David says, “I agree, these are good. The ones that are covered with chocolate, the
chocolate is kind of more overpowering than the cookie that is inside. Not that that is BAD, but for the Philistine
that I am I sometimes wonder, “What is this
cookie?? Is it a sugar cookie? Is it a shortbread cookie that I am eating on
the inside??”. But some of them have
hints of something or other in them and each of them is distinct I guess. So that’s good!
And the cookies without chocolate on them are also
nice. They are all really
cruuunchy. Not in a hard way, but in a crackly, kind of CRUNCHY way which is good. They all feel like they’ve got a lot of
BUTTER in them, which is also good. And not
underdone at all – they are perfectly done.
It’s a nice collection. I give it
a 4.5.”
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| We were psyched to get these |
Editor’s note: I asked
David if he would buy these again next year if Trader Joe’s has them, and he
said he would get them again if he was certain that he would have people to share them with. He says, “Cuz if no one else is eatin’ ‘em, I’m
EATIN’ this whole collection!!”. Well we
are going to share these, because
tonight we are bringing some to a luau at the neighbor’s house! Yes siree, nothing says “LUAU” more than
European cookies covered in melting chocolate!
Price – $9.99
Rating – 4.75
